Pati Ne Diya Dhoka – purva

Hello friends, Aaj me aapko apni jindgi ki sachai batane ja rahi hu jo mere sath ho raha h uske bare me bata rahi hu plz.. muje bataiye me kya karu… Hello friends mera name purva sharma h me m.p. se hu or meri shadi u.p bhagwan krishan ki nagri me pichle sal jan. 2012 me hui meri sagai dec me hui thi me bahut khush thi mere pati eng. Ki padai kar rahe the unka last sem project chal raha tha mere sasur ne samne se riste ki bat ki thi mere dad unke ghar gaye the bat karne sab sahi tha uske bad me dad unhe dekhne delhi gaye waha meri unse pahli mulakat hui thi humne ek dusre ke bare khub bat ki mene unhe apne bare me sab kuch bataya me padai me jada hoshiyar nahi hu muje English bhi jada bolna nahi aata sab kuch apne bare me bataya yaha tak ki mene to unse ye bhi pucha ki aap muj jesi ladki mean graduate girl se shadi kyu karma chahte h apni field ki kyu nahi to unhone kaha ki nahi muje apni field ki ladki se shadi nahi karni h or humari bate hoti rahi wo kaffi hoshiyar h padai me or dikhne me bhi kafi handsome h har koi unki personality ko dekh kar fida ho jaye Wese hi me ho gai kya dikhte h or bato se bi unhone mera dil jeet liya humari kafi pasand ek dusre se milti h to mere dad ne jab pucha ki kesa h to

mene kaha acha h pasand h or mere dad ne unke dad ko ha me jabab de diya or hum ghar wapas aa rahe the tab raste me unke dad ka phone aaya or unhone bhi kaha ki unhe me pasand aa gai hu or unki mom bhai or dad bhi dekhna chahte h Tab muje agra ke park me dikhaya gaya waha kisi ne kuch nahi pucha mujse or dekh kar roka karne lage tab mene hi kaha ki muje kuch kam nahi aata h meri mom ne kabhi mujse kabhi karwaya nahi h tab mummyji boli ki wo to hum shikha dege or usi din roka kar diya or shadi ki date niklwai kaha ki hum jan . me hi shadi karege mere dad ne kaha itni jaldi kyu thoda to time dijiye ek dum kese hoga par wo log mane nahi kaha ki hoga to jan me hi hoga or mere dad unki bato me aagaye sach to ye tha ki unhe me pasand nahi thi unki life me koi or hi thi but unke dad ko wo rista manjur nahi tha unka bhaia mom unke sath the but dad ke pressure ne unhe majbur kar diya tha or ye bat hume malum nahi thi hume laga ki wok hush h is shadi se ek bar ko muje bhi laga tha ki shayad me unhe pasand nahi hu kyuki wo sagai ke bad mujse bat nahi kiya karte the bahut hi kam kabhi kabhi to men eek din apni mom se kaha ki wo mujse bat nahi karte h bat kya h to meri mom boli esa kuch nahi h shayad busy hoge apne work me is liye nahi kar pata hoga or mene bhi yahi man liya humari shadi ho gai shadi ke bad kuch din to thik chala phir wo delhi chale gaye or me apne ghar phir wo muje lene aaye mere ghar or me apne sasural aagai meri sas ka behavior badla badla sa tha wo bat bat par muj par chilati thi ulta shida khti thi muje kuch samaj me nahi aatha tha ek din unhone muje kitchen me kaha ki tune apne pero par khud kuladi mari h muje is bat ka kuch samaj nahi aaya mere pati bhi delhi se aagaye the unka work khatam ho gaya tha or thoda bahut bacha tha to wo ghar par hi karte rahte the muje laga ab hum honeymoon par jayege par nahi gau\ye mene unse kaha ki hum honey moon par kab jayege to wo chillane lage kya honeymoon honeymoon laga rakha h nahi jana muje koi honeymoon par or wo lappy lekar sare din bethe rahte kabi work karte uske bad free hote to me sochti ki ab bat karege bolege mujse to game khelne lag jate muje bhi bada ajeeb lagta sasu ma bhi bat nahi karti kuch kam bhi nahi karne deti upar se khati kuch aata jat h nahi mene apne pati se kha ki mom muj par chilati kyu h tum pucho na bat kya h to khte h muje nahi pata kam karo apna samji us din unka bartav dekhkar me ek dum chakit rah gai ki ye wahi banda h jise mene pasand kiya tha jiski bate muje pasand aai thi me chup chap sofe par late gai rat ke 12 baj gaye wo apne lappy par game khelte rahe us din devar bhi ghar aaya hua tha me tv dekhte dekhte sofe par hi so gai or wo kisi se phone par dhire dhire bat kar rahe the mene jese hi karwat li to unhone mob. Band kar diya or fb par chat karne lage me ek dam uthi to dekha 2 bajrae h or wo fb chala rahe h muje bahut gussa aaya mene unse kha ki me sofe par so rahi hu aap itni i tni ratko kis se chat kar rahe h me bhi to dekhu ki biwi se bhi jada important kon h or unhone jhat se apni id band kar di or kaha koi nahi wo to me lappy band hi karne wala tha dosto us rat se hi meri life me bahut bada twist aaya subhah mene apne devar se bat ki tab usne kaha ki bhabhi thoda dhayan rakho bhaia par aapke bhale ke liye hi kah raha hu or phir aapki marji me bat samj nahi pai thi ye roj kisi se bat karte the ghanto ghanto mene pucha to khate h meri bestfrienfd h us se project ki bat karta hu to mene kaha ki wo shadi me kyu nahi aai to khate h ki uske yaha shadi thi to mene kah thik h ab bat karana meri us se muje kafi help milegi us se wo aapke sath 6 sal se h to kafi kuch pata hoga aapke pasand na pasand ke bare me to unhone saf mana kar diya ki nahi wo bat nahi karegi tab muje bada ajeeb laga ki kyu nahi karegi or ek din muje unke lappy se uske or inke photo mile jinhe dekh kar me ek dam sock me aagai ki ye to wahi ladki h or uske sath ese photo means us din muje pata chala ki wo unki gf h or mene unse pucha tab wo mujse ladne lage usi din se unka behavior or badal gaya kyuki sachai to muje pata chal hi gait hi or unhone mujse kaha ki tumne mujse kuch jada hi expectation kar rakhi h ki me tume movie dikhane ghumane firane le jauga me kahi nahi le jane wala ghar walo ko shadi karni thi kardi muje koi matlab nahi tab us din me bahut roi kuch samj me hi nahi aara ha tha ye ho kya raha h mere sath mere dad mom sab ye soch rahe the ki me bahut khush hu kyuki me unhe kuch nahi bata tit hi kyuki unke upar kya gujregi unhone muje itne pyar se pala posa shadi ki itne man se jitna unki hasiyat me tha us se jada hi kharch kiya phir bhi mere sasural wale muje tana marte the ki tumare ghar walo ne diya hi kya h tumare papa ne to tume bhar sa tala h sunte sunte me pagal jesi ho gait hi bas roti rahti nov. oct aa gaya ye sab shank arte karte dimak kam karna band ho gaya rote rote halt bhi kharab hone lagi thi ek din mene inki lappy se mail id khol kar dekhi to usme unhone us ladki ko mail dala hua tha kyuki wo unse bat nahi karti thi usne bat karna band kar diya tha kyuki mene inke fb par married ka event dal diya tha usi ke bad usne bat karna band kar diya or block kar diya tab unhone ye mail dala tha us mail ko pad kar me chakit rah gai usme unhone muje chodne ke bare me likha hua tha pad kar muje to kuch samj hi nahi aaraha tha jab wo ghar aaye tab meri unse kafi bate hui us mail ke bare me or wo mujse ladne lage tab mene kaha ki me ab sabko batugi ki bat kya h chal kya raha h humare beach me inki mom dad ko sab kuch pata tha ek din ratko humara jhagda hua kisi bat ko lekar to papa ji ne muje ulta shida sunaya or kaha ki iska khud ka chakar hoga tabhi ye apne mayke jane ki bat kahti rahti h tujse me bat karuga iske ghar walo se me puchuga ab or beta me teri life shudharuga ye sun kar me to chakit rah gai ki kese ma bap h jo bache ki galti par parda dal rahe h or dusro ko dosh de rahe h mere exam aa gaye the to me apne ghar aa gait hi but exam date postpone ho gai thi or mene ghar me sari bate batai thi or mene kaha ki me ab waha nahi jaugi muje waha nahi jana but mom dad are hum samjayege use esa nahi hota h rahna to wahi padega badnami hogi par kisi neb hi meri filing ko nahi samja kisi ne bhi mere bare me nahi socha mujse nahi pucha ki me kya chahti hu sabko apni badnami ki padi h par kisi ne ye nahi socha ki jab hum ek dusre ke sath khush hi nahi h uske dil dimak me mere liye koi filing hi nahi h to kya karege sath rah kar par nahi raho rahna padega gudda gudiya ka khel nahi h papa mere fufaji or ek bhaia aaye muje sath lekar ki bat kya h par kisi ne mudde ki bat to ki nahi sab ghar ki bat meri sas kahti h ki isko kuch nahi aata jata h kuch shikhaya nahi h wagarh wagarh to mere papa bole kam ka kya h aate karte karte shikh hi jata h inshan par ye kya h ki aap jab dekho tab tana marti rahti ho use esa thodi na chalta h sari bate hoti rahi par jo bat thi wo kisi ne nahi ki bas mere papa ne ye kaha ki is ladke ka kya farj banta h meri ladki ki taraf ye apni responsibility kyu nahi nibhata h par kisi ne sachai janne ki kosis nahi ki sachai ye thi ki uske dad ne bina marji ke uski shadi kardi jiska prnam muje bhugatna pad raha h me wapas sasural aa gai humari first anniversary thi par kuch nahi kiya hum honeymoon par nahi gaye the to ghumne bhej diya oe waha bhi mere pati ka behavior wesa hi raha rukha rukha tab mene kaha ki to yaha lane ki jarurat hi kyat hi sabko kya jatana chahte ho tum hum 5 6 din bad wapas aa gaye jab hum rasthe me train me the tab unhone kaha ek bat kahu muje aaj uski bahut yad aa rahi h hum akshar is train se safar kiya krte the muje bahut bura feel ho raha tha but hakiqt to ye hi h ki chand chutkiyo me 6 sal ka sath nahi bhulaya ja sakta tha to me bhi unki bato ko dil par anhi le gai par jab hum ghum kar wapas ghr aa gaye tab uske 1 2 din bad hi unhone ek bat kahi jo muje jhakor gai ki agar tumare ghar wale lade nahi court chacheri na ho aaps me ladai jhagda na ho to me tume chodna chahta hu agar esa hoga to nahi me badnami nahi chahta apni or anahi apne gahr walo ki ye bat sun kar me rone lagi to khte h me majak kar raha tha ab aap hi batiye esa koi majak karta h or me tumari sadi karauga bolo koi bhi pati apni patni ke liye dusre pati ki sochta h ghum kar aane ke bad se hi inka bartaw badal gaya h mujse thik se pesh nahi aate h office se aate h apne mom dad ke pas bethe rahte h fir room me aate h khana khate h or lappy par work karte rahte h jab me so jati hu tab thodi der bad so jate h subah nasta karke nikal jate h fir din bhar call bhi nahi karte ab aap hi bataiye plz… me kya karu mera man karta h bhag jau ya shusait kar lu kya hal nikal sakta h aap hi batao dosto plz… aage kya ho sakta h meri life me plz muej bataiye

Purva (on 04/03/13) : friends mene aap sabhi ke comment pade h sabhi ka kahna h ki me unhe chod du but mere mom dad ready nahi h wo kahte h sab thik ho jayega ek bacha kar lo sab thik ho jayega but aap hi batao kya bacha karne se sab thik ho jayega unke dil dimak me mere liye pyar peda ho jayega pyar to ahsas h do dilo ka ek dusre ko samjna wo to pata hi nahi kya chahte h samaj me hi nahi aata h aaj humari sadi ko 1 year 1 month ho gaye h or is 1 sal me mene sab dekh liya ki unko meri kitni fikar h or kitni care subah ke jate h din me 1 bar bhi call nahi karte kuch alag hi response h jab se unhone college join kiya h padane ke liye yaha tak ki apne aap ko unmarride bata rakha h waha par bhala ek bat batao koi apni biwi se esa majak kara h kya ki agar tumare parents ladai jhagda na kare cort cacheri na ho to me tume chodne ko ready hu fir kah de ki majak kar raha tha tum to serious ho gai ho us bat ko le kar me kuch dino ke liye apne ghar aai hui thi to ek din bhi call karke bat bhi nahi karte the mera to man bhi nahi tha aane ka but mom sab thik ho jayega ek bacha aa jayega to hume ek bacha chahiye ab aap batao agar aage ja kar wo muje chod kar kahi chala jaye to me apne baby ko lekar kya karugi bataiye uska jeevan kharab nahi hoga kya

 Purva (on 18/03/13) : wo kabhi nahi sudar sakte ab jab unki gf ne move on kar diya h to wo ab jis college me lecturer h usi me kisi mem se flirt kar rahe h us ladki ko to ye nahi pata ki wo married h ye bas ladkio ke jajbatokesath khelna jante h unki feeling ko majak samjte h mujse kah rahe h ki tume kya problem h tum rah to rahi ho ghar me mere sath me apne mayke gai hui thi tab humari shadi ki photo hall me se nikal di kyuki piche se college ki faculty aai thi ghar par koi nahi tha mom dad bhi devar ke pass gaye the ye or inka cousin the dono ne milkar photo ko hataya tha ye bat muje humare ghar kam karne wali made ne bataya tha mene jab pucha ki photo frame kyu uthara to bolte h ki wo achank se gir gaya tha ab aap hi batao jo frame huck se kasa ho jo 1 sal se nahi gira jiski roj safai karti hu tab to nahi nikla or sabse badi bat wo apni mom ki kasam tak kha gaye ki mene nahi nikala muje to rakha hua mila tha muje humare yaha kam karne wali bai ne sab bataya tha ab aap batao jo insan apni ma ki jhuti kasam kha sakta h wo kya nahi kar sakta meri family kyunahi samj rahi uski mom bhi sab janti h mene use wapas lagane ko kaha to mana kar diya kaha ki waha wo nahi lagega koi new wall pic lagegi but wo nahi kyuki wo nahi chahta kisi ko batana ki wo married h yar to shadi kyu ki kyu meri life ke sath majak bana rahe h mummy ji papaji ye sab pata nahi kya chahte hmeri kechin alg kar di sare din apne room mehi rahti huye morning me jate h evening me aate h fir mom dad ke pas bethe rahte hfir market chale jate h kafi der me aate h aaj kal mob. se lage rahte h mob. me pass. dal rakhe h ratko sote time network off kar dete h jab me apne ghar thi tab roj ratko phone busy jata tha mujse bat nahi karte the me bolti msg. karke ki bat karna to 10 baje hi bol dete the ki sone ja raha hu thak gaya hu ek din mene lagaya to busy hi busy ja raha tha me jab aai tab ese hi bat chal rahi thi tab mom bol rahi thi ki wo room me rat bhar kam karte the college ka tab muje bahut gussa aaya ki mujse to bodete the ki so raha hu or kisi or se bate karte h ab aap batao sunday ko konsa college khulta h mene movie jane ki bola tha to kal college ki bol kar chale gaye ki college me bacho ko project banwa rahahu waha ja raha hu new tshirt jens Gogol laga kar sach to ye h ki wo chahta h ki me samne se sabko bol du ki me uskesath nahi rahna chati or wo sarif ban jaye uske upar koi kuch na bole mene ese hi majak kiya tha ki me kisi se bat karti hu to bolte h ki to kab bhag rahi ho uske sath me karwa duga us se tumari shadi ese ladke ke sath kese sari jindgi katu me kyu meri or iski family muje pagal karne par tuli hui h rat bhar need nahi aati h muje bas rona hi rona aata h ese ghut ghut kar kese meri job lag rahi h m.p. me hi pahle to mom bol rahi thi ki kahi bhi job lage hume karwani h ab mana kar rahi h ki hume nahi karwani inhone to bola tha jab noida job ki bat hui thi ki 24 month dur rahlogitomar nahi jaogi ab jab lag rahi h to kyu natak kar rahe h sab muje to kuch samaj nahi aata ye chah kya rahe h me mar jau bhag jau inki badnami na ho meri ho jaye merijindgi barbad karke rakh di h apni marji se kuch nahi kar sakte kahi ja nahi sakti yar ab sahnnahi hota mana wo jada intelligent h handsome h par kisi ko apne aap par itna bhi gurur nahi hona chahiye kisi ki bhawnao ke sath nahi khelna chahiye woladkio ke sath filart karte h unki bhawna ka majak bana rakha h us ladki ko to nahi pata but meri life kyu barbad kar raha h jab use mujse love hi nahi to kyu merilife kharab ki meri jindgi kya muje waps mil jayegi meri khushiya mera bita hua kal wapas aa jayega ab to jindgi dikhawa lagne lagi h esa jeena bhi koi jeena h apne aap me muje nafrat si hone lagi h kya jada hifai ladkiya ko hi sab pasand karte h pyar karte h hum sada simpale ladkiya bekar lagti h to kyu log unki jindgi barbad karte h ise jab me pasand nahi thi kyu apne papa ke kahne par sadi ki mujse usi time mana kar deta kamse kam meri life to barbad nahi hoti